>After I left work I stopped by my ex’s work, get the $10 she owed me… I was itching to say something — “you know, I saw you with that guy… funny, considering you seemed to be thinking in another direction last time we spoke of such things…” I got all worked up and once I actually had the chance to say something: I didn’t bother. It really wouldn’t accomplish anything, and from the look on her face she knew I knew already. It would only create more tension — and that was enough without any help.
I have some advice to any ladies out there — if things aren’t working out, tell the person straight up. Don’t sugarcoat, hint at maybe something down the road… it only makes things worse. Don’t continue to hang out to ween yourself away from things… again: just makes things harder. I’m fine with being civil — even maybe chilling at a party, but the 1:1 just doesn’t mesh without communication. I suppose that was the initial problem, anyhow.
…and for all who are saying “just let it go…” — I’m workin on it, gimme another week 😉 hehe
I am also working on a new album, sort of a theraputic project, but mainly just for fun — “Dumping Grounds” inspired by Ben Folds 5 – Song For the Dumped. If you haven’t heard it, get it now!
Thanks to everyone for the positive feedback on the site! ^-^
This was posted on the board – but I had to share and make it easily accessible. Take a look at it here. I love how it is titled: OBJECTIVE. — Make sure to keep reading the addendums. =]~
