>What’s one to do for Valentines Day? The traditional guy may reply as such: Pick her up with flowers, possibly candy. Go to a nice restaurant, opening the doors and being as gentlemanly as possible. Speak of pleasant relationship conversation, forward in nature. Dance. Get home with the teddy bear / teddy present and… off to the “boudauh”. Is that enough — do you have to find a card, a dozen roses? Are there required commitments, unspoken but expected? I don’t think I’m doing very well thus far. I keep getting caught up in the future, my goals — and…