>I hate to be a one note horse here, but what do you do when all of a sudden you don’t feel welcome? — I asked my friend who was going with another friend to go out to eat if they would mind if I tagged along. I was greeted with silence : OK, I can take a hint, that’s fine, but then she said “well, you comin?” when she was ready to leave, without really saying anything in-between, like “Yeah! Come on!” or even a “sure”. I said OK — we were taking separate cars, but I had issues…

>I love it when people don’t realize what they’re saying. When it’s so egotistical, foolish, unthinking, and inconsiderate that it makes one cringe… I caught the meaning, but try to formulate the words so as to not insinuate an insult, a dig, or a gloat. Sheesh. (…or maybe I’m just jealous)