>I love being tested, it’s so much fun. I get a whole bunch of good, the good gets better… then it’s bad, hiss, bad, bad. It tests my patience, my coping, my outlook, and my temper. There are things that you can use with hindsight to learn… and some things that you may wish you weren’t there at that time — but it happened, and there’s nothing you can do about it. It’s just another bothersome little tidbit of life. When you can see the good tidbits through the bad tidbits… it makes it a little easier. I stayed calm,…