>A friend called me near the end of work today… the details are on the news page. He said Phil – someone we used to hang out with all the time – had died in a car accident this weekend. It’s one of those calls that you never expect to actually get because it’s far to close to those after school specials to be real. I didn’t know what to say. I know my friend was really close to him… I wanted to say something meaningfull. Instead I said nothing. I really liked the guy, I did… but my manner…